Abusive relationship - havent spoken for over a week

[Daphne18]

It feels odd - I can still see him online - WhatsApp etc but no contact - I ignored his last text sent last week - it's so hard. Foes other get easier

He can be so verbally abusive - yelling and so aggressive - I just want not to feel bad. I thought moving away from the relationship would make me feel better so why do I still feel so awful? 😢

Sounds like moving away was the right thing to do. How about blocking him completely from social media and texts etc. Why would you want to hear from him or watch what he is doing. It’s not sensible.

I can just see when he's online on whatsapp - I've gone offline with the rest - why do I still feel like I miss him?

Because they condition you to the point you feel like you can't live without them. That they're the only one that will ever put up with you. That you'll be alone forever. That you're the one that's a nightmare and you had it good with them.

Don't believe that shit!!!
You do you girl you're smarter than you think and more you beautiful than you could ever imagine. Never forget it xx

Block, delete old whatsapp conversation and then delete his number.

Have been going through the same thing in terms of whatsapp.

It will actually feel a like a relief when you've done the three things above and help you move on.

It's more walking on egg shells that I couldn't take anymore - his awful temper and bullying behaviour. I agree re block - he isn't trying to contact me anyway. pugalug that was lovely to read - thank you