We have the same arguement over and over. Basically DP uses his money to shut down disagreements and buy his way back into favour.
Perhaps I shouldn't let him pay for stuff but then we wouldn't end up doing anthing and as he says as he has the money for eating out and holidays he wants to do it with his girlfriend.
We don't live together and we had a big argument last week ehich was pretty much down to me being fed up with this situation
The main issue is ,I know we now won't speak until Friday, when we go to France on holiday. I texted him today ( quite early for Sunday hence not talking directly) to see if he wanted to go out with friends but he texted back he couldn't. Nothing else.
He'll be fine in France because he's paid for the Chunnel and Gite.He'll will use that to remind me how lucky we are ( which to be fair is true). I feel I have to do happy and excitied in France or I look like a dick bringing up a week old argument , despite him having sulked for a week.
So how should I approach it? Do I phone him for a non argumentive chat tonight, thereby both of us dropping the issue (and putting me back to square 1)
Let him sulk this week and just have fun in France?
Not go to France if I haven't spoken to him all week?
Something else?