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friends sleazy husband

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whydoitnow · 28/07/2018 15:55

I really hope this does not get into the papers but I am really struggling with what to do. Long story short friends husband is well known to everyone except his wife (who is my friend). On a night out with my friend and my husband he made a very blatant sexual pass at me. The man knocks me sick and I have only tolerated him because of husband and friend. He knew my husband and I had been having a few problems lately and I think he thought that he could take advantage. I told my husband who confronted him and told him that friendship was over and we wouldn't be seeing them again.
My problem is that this will break my friend's heart and I just don't know what to say when she asks about a holiday she and I were supposed to be booking together. The thought of her husband turns my stomach,
How can I disengage from our friendship, if I stay friends with her I will see him.
I know some of you will say tell her the truth but it's not so simple and I don't have the heart for it. I just want to crawl under a rock and never come out.
She is such a nice person and doesn't deserve any of this.
What would you do
For conext we are all over fifty

OP posts:
Gemini69 · 28/07/2018 22:56

well done OP Flowers

JakeBallardswife · 28/07/2018 23:12

Well done. Good big girl pants, couldn’t have been easy. Better in the long run & you’re not lying to her.

PussGirl · 28/07/2018 23:28

I suspect, as she thanked you, she knows exactly what he is like Sad

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