How to understand that a man is serious and not using you for sex...

[Inexperiencedchick]

I don’t know where we stand but at the same time I don’t want to be used for sex...

What does a man do when he is serious about a woman?

And what do men usually do when they don’t see a future with a woman but keep her for sex...

Well in my experience, when a man's interested in you....he usually wants sex whether he wants a long term relationship or not. So assume all men who ask you out or flirt with you, want sex.

So what you're looking for is a man who is good company. Find a man who you get on with and who makes you laugh and who laughs at your jokes too...a man who could ultimately be a great friend.

Then, assuming that's all going swimmingly, then think about having sex with him.

Don't have sex immediately...if you go on two or three dates and you want to sleep with him and it's mutual...you can...but work out first, if he's a good person or not.

People have ways of letting you know this...their opinions and topics of conversation are a good way of knowing.

Do you talk about your relationship? Do your partner's actions match his words? If he refuses to discuss the relationship that would be a red flag for me.

Thank you Lipstick 💐

I’m very confused with the one I’m dating...

In brief I'd say a man who's interested in doing things with you other than sex is someone not just in it for sex. Such as takes you out, meets his friends and family.

Take sex off the table and you will work it out pretty quick

If you just meet them, don’t sleep with them for a month. They will be gone by three weeks if they just wanted sex.

I’m dating him and it’s been on and off... At the beginning he was very keen and slowly things have moved to a different level...

It all depends on me... I should probably walk out and so far I was not able to do it...

He is away for 10 days for a business trip, and told me he is going to South America for Christmas, so I can invite my sister over (last Christmas was like that, but it was early days...).

I think I have to finish it off and don’t look back anymore.

It makes me sad but there is no chance, as we are very different...