Husband has left me

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So last night my Husband came home to tell me after 10 years he no longer loves me. He swears there is no other woman and I do believe him . What the f do I do next? I am in utter shock and cannot stop crying. I wish i could wake up and it be a bad nightmare. We have a 6 year old daughter too she is heartbroken as well although obviously doesn't fully understand. Any advice from anyone? Thank you

Yep, definitely an ow. She'll materialise soon enough.

So sorry you are going through this op

There may or may not be an OW but to be honest OP it's a bit irrelevant. He wants out of the marriage, he may well have been seeing other women whilst he came to this decision. It's horrible and I'm so sorry for you

Thank you everyone

Also bank accounts, does he have an off shore one? Mine had two.l and that's where the money went. I was incredibly naive thinking all was well and my husband was working hard for our future. I couldn't have been more wrong sadly.

Did you meet up today to talk about finances? I'd tread careful and commit to nothing at this point. I'm so sorry, I hope you get some answers xx

Take it all day at a time OP

Sending hugs to you and your dd 💐

I can understand you're hurt, in shock, devastated and have just had your world turned upside down, but what i don't understand is this -
We have a 6 year old daughter too she is heartbroken as well although obviously doesn't fully understand

Why - and what - on earth did you tell your 6 year old child seeing as you were only told last night?!

Heebiejeebies i dont need to defend my decision or wish to explain

He has another woman babe. It's as simple as that.

Hope u are ok op

Other woman or not, make sure you have sufficient money but don’t make any long term financial commitments.

Get thee to a solicitor!

Thanks Alfiemoon. Im doing ok. Realising life goes on. Definitely no ow. Not that it makes it much better!

Sorry love, you will be back on here in a heartbeat

OW beyond a doubt