A woman’s perspective so I don’t creep someone out...

[Willing2acceptAdvice]

Hi all,

I was looking at a friends Facebook list looking for a friend of his. Whilst on there looking for this guy, I notice a woman on there and thought how pretty she looked.

I want to message her on Facebook but dont know if I should send a message first or a friends request?

Ladies what are your thoughts?

Ooh just an update. The guy I fancied and friend requested has sent me an invitation to a local event today where he's playing. He may well have sent it to all his contacts tho! I responded to say we're coming and he sent a lovely enthusiastic response back. We shall see today whether he was just being polite or not!

I'll just add, we were planning to go anyway.