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I want a break from my OH I can't take it anymore

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thirdtrimesterandfedup · 26/07/2018 19:21

We're due to move into our new home next week and I just can't bare the thought of living with him just us again. We're currently in my mums spare room as we saved up for this house.

We have ds already and dd is due September 14th but there thinking of inducing me early due to her not gaining enough weight.

My problems with him are I feel like I'm suffocating he doesn't go to see his friends anymore. Hes constantly peeping over my shoulder to see what I'm typing, he found out my pin for my phone and found out I watched some porn he went crazy over this I never bat an eye lid when he watches it.

If we have a little argument he starts driving like an idiot and I can't stand it. I just want a break from him I want him to go stay at his mums for a few days but he won't because it's to far from work.

He's looking over his shoulder while I type this nowAngry

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TrollTheRespawnJeremy · 26/07/2018 21:50

I don't imagine it will have been easy living on top of each other at your mums... and being pregnant is tough.

If you've been saving for the new house maybe he hasn't wanted to spend money going out with friends?

The watching over your shoulder would drive me mental though- just stop it OP's DP. It's a total arsey thing to do.

Can you go on a wee break- couple of nights in a hotel- maybe a pregnancy massage just to chill out for a bit on your own?

whatwouldkeithRichardsdo2 · 26/07/2018 22:14

You are staying in your mother's spare room. Tell him to leave. His commute time is too bad. You need space.

Are you married?

PurpleWithRed · 26/07/2018 22:17

Sounds like you need counselling at the very least. He sounds insufferable.

Sistersofmercy101 · 26/07/2018 22:29

Controlling behaviour - RED FLAG!! Totally bang out of order!
I don't give two hoots what his "reasons" are - environmental circumstances, such as living in a spare room saving for a house - this behaviour is still TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE!
Driving dangerously is controlling, frightening you so that you back down in the disagreement. Monitoring your phone - controlling.
Shouting at you because you did something totally normal that he does - hypocritical and controlling!
Send him to his mother's, you do not have to accept this behaviour!!
AngryAngryAngry

Shoxfordian · 27/07/2018 08:48

Don't put up with it then
Don't move in with him

RabbitsAreTasty · 27/07/2018 09:04

What are your options for housing?

KeiTeNgeNge · 27/07/2018 10:15

Change your pin

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