Hi first time posting in here. Any advice would be great. Have been in a long distance relationship for a year now which has been going great. The bf is two years out of a long marriage and not yet divorced. He told me his marriage had been over for five years. However they remain friendly and even shared a hotel room together along with their grown up children when it was a family funeral. U did not say much about this at the time as we had only recently met. However the weekend just gone after spending the week at mine he told me his kids were coming for the weekend and the ex was coming too . He told me not to worry they were just friends. Naturally this didn't go down well and I told him it's a bit much as seemed like the marriage wasnt as over as he said. I told him I couldn't hang around for this and said we should end it. He told me to stop being paranoid and get a grip and proceeded to spend the weekend together whilst finally turning his phone off on the Sunday. He is now trying to win me back saying it was just friends she was feeling very down and he would never lie to me and wants to move on.
I'm now very confused as how to proceed .