And if so what do I write?
Spent the night with a guy from work back in March (same company but different departments so don't see him all the time), at the time he was seperated but still living in the same house as his wife.
I did the whole self-preservation thing of pretending it was a one-off and I wasn't interested in anything more when really I did (do) like him but was worried the actual physical separation between him & his wife might not happen.
Well it has happened about 6 weeks ago, I've sat back thinking he'd get in contact if he was interested but he hasn't, possibly because of how I was at the time (or possibly because he's not interested).
I was chatting to him today and I just wanted him to know why I acted the way I did and let him know I do like him, it's not an appropriate work conversation though!
I have his number but have never messaged.. Do I? or do I wait for another social occasion that we're both at? Though it could be Christmas and I'm thinking of all the wasted time between the then if we are both sitting back thinking the other one doesn't like them.
Were both middle aged FFS and I do appreciate how juvenile this all is.