My ex was abusive, manipulative, a cheating bastard and so on, you get the idea! I don’t want to go into what it is, but he’s asked me to do something that is not an issue for me at all, wouldn’t cause me any hardship etc, but will cause him problems if I don’t do it. I could take the view that just cos he was a bastard doesn’t mean I need to stoop to his level and be a bitch and say no. Or I could say no, why should I do anything that will help him after what he did to me.
I’ll be honest, i’m Leaning towards saying “no, fuck you” lol. But is there anything i’M missing in “being the bigger person”? I just feel that revenge will feel better than than giving him what he wants! We don’t have kids together or anything so no one else will suffer if I say no, only him.