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Ex husband on drugs... advice?

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knewme · 24/07/2018 15:07

So as you may have seen previously I left my husband almost 3 months ago due to domestic abuse and suspected child abuse. The police dropped all investigations due to lack of evidence. I have now found out he is in contact with a very bad influence friend which comes hand in hand with cocaine and alcohol (despite him nearly dying from alcohol related hemmorages!!)... So what I need help with is what are my right in regards to the divorce and inevitable contact disputes?

He has not once asked about his kids since I've left despite nagging constantly for the house keys back and moaning I cut off the internet bill. He is an alcoholic and now apparently doing drugs....

Can I stop his parental rights? Help! I don't want my children around him when he's got anything to do with alcohol drugs or this friend in question.

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Prawnofthepatriarchy · 24/07/2018 16:03

I'm no expert but don't like to read and run.

Seems to me that if he hasn't once asked about the kids in three months you haven't much to worry about. Alcoholic drinking and cocaine use take up all the addict's time and energy. Let him get on with it and deal with contact if and when the situation arises.

I'd guess the police involvement would be pretty persuasive to a court if it comes to it. Perhaps keep a diary of anything you find out?

knewme · 24/07/2018 16:47

That's good advice, thanks!

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