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Falling in love with him again

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Twins18 · 21/07/2018 21:12

Hi

Ive never posted anything online before but really just need advice.
Ive been with my partner for 10 years. We have two beautiful kids together. Ds 4 years old and DD 7 months. We're both not people who like public affection much and really try to keep our private life..private. but we stopped saying things like i love you probably 5 years in.sex has always been great. No complaints on my end. But i think he would have liked me to be more adventurous but i just didnt have the confidence . But in the last couple weeks i have just been feeling so much more in love with him. I just feel like i want to be with him all the time. I want to kiss him when i see him ( even in public) i want to hold his hand. And i want to make love every night . I dont know where this surge of feelings have come from but its quite overwhelming. I dont know how to talk to him about it. Its like ive fallen in love with him all over again. I feel like a little school dating the guy she's been after for months lol. I find him sooo attractive and EVERYTHING he does satisfies me and makes me love him even more. I just feel so nervous to confess all this. Any advice ?? Thanks in advance

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naebotherpal · 21/07/2018 21:34

Do you need to “confess” it? Either just be happy feeling it, or tell him it as the good thing that it is.

Unless you’re worried he no longer loves you?

Twins18 · 21/07/2018 21:48

I dont need to 'confess' it. But im scared he'll either think something deeper is going on for the sudden change in feelings or he won't return those actions back. Do i just not say anything? I mean what if i reached up to give him a kiss and he pulled away. I don't know how I'd feel. He definitely 100% loves me. I'd never doubt that .

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AlwaysSleepy1 · 21/07/2018 21:56

This doesn't really sound like a problem..! Could it be your hormones as your only a few months postpartum?!

Twins18 · 21/07/2018 21:59

Maybe your right. My hormones are probably all over the place. I just keep thinking that i hope he knows how much i love him and how much i appreciate him. I've never been one to openly talk about feelings. I just get so nervous for some reason.

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