Me and fiancé have been together nearly 3 years!!
I’m currently pregnant 10 days over due!
Cut a long story short his ex has been a nutcase since we got together she will go quiet for a few months and then start stalking and harassing !! I’ve had to block her on several accounts she was liking my pregnancy announcements and was ringing my partners place of buisnsss and congratulating me on the pregnancy! I do not trust the woman!! The police have been involved and warned her a few times now!
Last week on Monday I’m cooking dinner for relatives and she walks past the house looking straight at it, I’m stood in the door way as the weather is scorching! My first impression was what an abosolute weirdo nosying so i just waved at her and she carried on walking up!! Not brought it up again! Weds last week a parcel is tried to be delivered by the Royal Mail in her name to our address!! No one was in etc card left!! Stupidly I’ve ripped it up and put it in the bin as I could’ve shown this the police.
Yesterday I’m cleaning my baby’s nursery and doing last min checks etc as due to be induced Monday - I look out of the window and there she is again looking in gawping at the house!! This time I retaliated and shouted if she wanted to come in for a cuppa seeing as though she keeps walking past ( bear in mind ) there’s nothing around here it’s a housing estate and she lives other side of our town!! She replied by laughing at me and saying she would have a coffee!!! Partner is stood behind me and not once backed me up!! My hormones got the better of me that I’ve at 9’weeks overdue jumped in the car to find her and ask what her problem is and what does she want!! And basically tell her to do one !! Again partner just stayed in the house and let me go. Yes it was spur of moment but if that was my heavily pregnant partner I’d have stopped them. As I’m driving back to our house she’s walking back down, I pull up and ask her what hell her problem is ! She cannot answer me, and pretends to talk on the phone and walk away!! Now i know I shouldn’t have retaliated and given her what she wanted !! But throughout my pregnancy this woman has caused me nothing but stress and two of my scans I was in the police station giving a statement before going to see my 1st baby on scan :( and I’ve also had to be monitored because of her causing me stress and I’ve been so scared to loose my baby.
I’ve told my partner to grow a pair and tell her to do one!! Ive been so upset today that I’ve started bleeding! I’ve rang the hospital and nurse said it’s early labour and to wait for things to happen and yes I’m 10days overdue but I now see it as his stupid ex upsetting me like this has made me come into labour whilst I’m upset!! My so called supportive other half has told me I cannot blame her and I’m furious like whose side is he on here and where does his loyalties lie I’ve had enough I’ve told him I’m done !! How many more times in 3 years does one girl have to nod and smile and deal with this!! Well it’s enough now this has caused me no end of upset and now my baby girl is due I am not having his impact her!! I have asked him all day to ring the police log it down and he hasn’t which has hurt more than anything!!! It’s took another massive argument and him to tell me to ignore her for him to ring them!!! And now he thinks we can just move on and play happy family’s !! I cannot even explain how upset that my fiancé has let this stress me out this much whilst carrying his child!!! I’m not expecting him to go out and pyhsically stop her but I expect him to want to protect his family!!! From an ex who btw was put in care for trying to stab her dad and threatening to throw her baby sister Over a bridge when she was younger!!! In what right mind would any woman be comfortable with that walking around when they have a baby!! I’m so sorry for the long post I’ve just needed to vent somehow!! OH mother is telling me it’s punishing her son if I leave him and she doesn’t want him getting upset!!! Seriously to fucking God !!! I am the one upset dealing with this pregnant ! Do i stay in this in supportive relationship just to not upset dad!! Or do I take myself and my baby girl who is due any day out of it before it ends up effecting her all because her dad doesn’t want the hassle of reporting it even tho he has admitted he knows she won’t leave us alone !!!
Sorry for giving everyone a headache with this haha
Apologies if any spelling mistakes I’ve just wrote this really fast lol