Update from a long time ago

[WellDoneTiger]

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He is now my ex husband and he has now moved out of the family home. There is so much inbetween and things before. I wanted to record the time it has taken me from first articulating something I found uncomfortable to him being questioned by the police for rape.

I hope to articulate how hard it is to accept the reality of domestic abuse.

Thank you all for telling me. It has taken a while for it to sink in.

I think that MN can be a harsh place to post. So many of you have been so kind and frustrated and brutal. Without you I wouldn't have known where to turn.

You are very brave OP and I’m happy to hear things are looking brighter for you.

The support on here can be wonderful and while I didn’t see you thread at the time I’m glad people were there for you.

Well done tiger

Just followed your link and read your old thread. SO pleased to hear that you've got away from him.

I posted on your first thread. I’m so sorry he obviously carried on and worse. I’m pleased that you were strong enough to get rid of him and can now live your life. Good luck for the future.

This had made my morning. Well done you, and I wish you the very best of things in your new life

Great news. Onwards & upwards on your new chapter 💐

It had to be his decision. He made it abundantly clear in front of the whole family that he was divorcing me. It's really odd how much calmer I feel now he's gone. I actually feel different. I feel like doing nice things with myself. Not that I am taking my advice Hopefully one day

I just followed your old link, well done Op you are very brave, I am so glad for your strength and that you are now safe x

Well Done Tiger indeed!

He carried on with his sexual behaviour until I got cross with him. He told me again that it was his way of showing affection, that I was his wife, and that he would never touch me again. He never touched me again and spent the remainder of our marriage in the spare room. It was wonderful to be able to freely wear my pyjamas! I love my pyjamas!