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I need help so sad and depressed I don’t know what to do

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annaba23 · 20/07/2018 13:00

My husband is bullying me and has been bullying me for over a year now I’m exhausted totally drained and numb I have even have started to rock back and fourth not sure why. Everything I do is wrong and get shouted at all the time I don’t even fight back anymore as it just makes it worse. I’m always wrong, he says so many things that are bad about me about my past and about me now I paid £1,000 for a five day holiday to see if I could fix it he said he would cover the spending money. We have hardly eaten he has brought stuff he likes for sandwiches and we ate out twice minimum choice as I didn’t feel comfortable using his money. I worked like a dog to get him his residence and ended up having my daughter at 24 weeks last year due to exhaustion. During that one year in hospital he treated me so bad made a horrendous situation worse. I am now lost broken numb have no family or friends to turn to and he is making my life hell I cry sometimes to ease the pain or I will look at him with tears in my eyes he just laughs. I care for our daughter 24/7 and pay all the bills I do t get what I am doing so wrong for him to hate me so much? I have tried everything and he is all I have I have had this in two previous relationships when I met him I was broken and he put me together again but then broke me again

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Singlenotsingle · 20/07/2018 13:04

What do you mean, you fought to get him his residence? What nationality is he? Is he from a background where the men treat their women like possessions? Doesn't sound good - you're actually married to him are you? Confused

Singlenotsingle · 20/07/2018 13:05

You really do have to get out of there OP.

Summersnake · 20/07/2018 13:34

You were broken ...and he put you together again..now he's broken you? You clearly were not ready for a relationship when you met him...you need to be in control of your own destiny.no man should have that sort of power over a woman..you clearly are capable of holding down a job if you've paid for a holiday.so you are capable of managing alone..you don't need someone who pulls you down ,and isolates you.you need to end this and stand on your own feet...Give no man the power to mend nor break you...you are woman..you are strong 💐

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