Fiancé has ended it. Wedding next Thursday.

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I take lots of the blame. I am insecure, arrogant and independent. I have wielded a pointy stick for so long. But I am now devastated. Our wedding was booked for next Thursday, which would have been my parents' 66th wedding anniversary (he died a couple of months ago).

I have never been married. DD who is nearly 21 (and it's always been just us; maybe part of the problem?) says that Margaret Hale wouldn't have needed to get married aside from her era; I had to google North and South.

My mother thinks I'm a bit useless because I always had a career and was a single mother.

Sorry, really disjointed.

So sorry OP you must be devastated, sorry to hear about your DF too, what a rough few months you have had.

If fixable, can you suggest therapy? Please look after yourself and practice self care x

You Sound shocked and very torn by your equally strong DD and DM !

Honey people don’t cancel wedding lightly . You need to talk and if it’s over it’s over sadly

Drinking last night, op? (It reads like it.)

Sorry the relationship has broken down. You will get through it.

lobster I am so sorry. You have been such a support to me and many others. I think you and your fiance need to talk honestly and not make hasty decisions, but calling off a wedding is a huge deal. You both need to get to the bottom of what's going on.

Meanwhile get all the help you can and keep working the steps.

'Read and run' No advise
So helpful