Please help me out here.
I know in my head this is wrong - but apparently my fault.
‘She’s not my fucking ex, you total bitch, you fucking bitch - how dare you suggest such a thing’
Throws towels and other stuff at me, tells me he wants to punch me in the face.
This is 11:30pm, he’s in my home. 14 yo DS is asleep in his room.
Loses phone, empties my bedroom before saying he’s leaving.
He was picking at me for asking whether a FB female was an ex, because he keeps referring to her. She’s also really hot and a mutual friend of friends.
He started telling me I was obsessed with his ex’s. I’m not, I just found it weird that he was going on about her hair - because mine needs doing.
I snapped back that it wouldn’t be unusual because I had to put up with one of his ex’s - I didn’t know they’d had any sexual connection because he denied it for 18 months but I knew she was too familiar after her Sunday morning texts and knack of calling every time we were together. It came out she’d been the cause of his 7 year relationship breaking down because he was unfaithful with her. She took 6 months after that to subside. She was a nightmare - oh and he’d spent the weekend visiting her as I believed she was a friend.
I’m sat here waiting to get my keys back. I just need to know that I didn’t deserve that.
These outbursts and dramas are frequent and I’ve been ending it bi-weekly and then getting the lovely stuff and lured back in.
I know he’s abusive. Please, just hand hold and tell me that’s abuse...