I’ve quit my job and now dh have just split up...

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and I have no idea what I’m going to do 😞. I’ve not been very well or myself lately and things have come to a head probably because I’ve had a week to myself to think and reflect how unhappy I am. Dh was fine about me giving work up even happy but on reflection things are working he massively clashes with ds where he shouts constantly I’ve even had comments from the neighbours. This led to another row and next thing I’ve said I’ve had enough and can’t do it. I have two kids to support and a mortgage and I’ve just given up my job ffs what am I going to do 😞

The dh and ds thing has been going on for a while he’s 13 and testing but Im very much in the middle. Although dh has not been physical he shouts constantly at him even over silly things. People who have heard or witnessed it have said its ott.

How recently did you quit your job? Any chance you could just retract your resignation? Hope it works out for you.

A week ago I’ve since applied for another job so waiting to here. It’s all happened at once I’ve been so busy working and plodding along and ignoring everything that’s going on and my own unhappiness. Dh is still here as he’s refusing to accept its over but for my sons mental health I can’t have him here. I’ve let it go on too long. I don’t even know what to do or where to start 😞

Hi. If you all want to be together perhaps family counselling might be helpful. If something has been happening to make DH angry and irritable when he is not usually like that then something's going on under the surface. DS being 13 is going to be testing. Perhaps DH needs help understanding that DS is just being normal and doesn't need or deserve to be shouted at. for you.

I take it DS is not your DH's son?

What is your living situation. Do you own or rent, if rented whose name is on the tenancy?

Did you quit your previous job due to stress? If not I'd contact them and ask if you can come back.

We have a joint mortgage, ds is both of ours but they clash massively. Lots of people have commented on the way dh speaks to ds. Ds is dyslexia so very forgetful, disorganised etc which obviously causing dh frustration. I quit my job because I was unhappy and felt I was bringing too much work at home. But then at the weekend ds and dh has a big fall out which involved my parents and they are both concerned about dh bullying ds. I then confronted dh and we had a row.