No kissing or sex

[madashell]

Wonder if anyone has advice as I'm becoming increasingly frustrated with certain aspects of my marriage. I have always had a higher sex drive than my husband but we have been through phases where it's been good. However we now have sex rarely and I can't remember the last time we 'snogged'.

I'm starting to feel unattractive and unloved especially as I'm not the shape I used to be before DD was born 10 months ago.

I used to be on the pill which I know probably men prefer but I came off it to sort my hormones out- should I consider going back on it?

Any advice appreicated.

i went through that stage too one day i got soo fed up i told dp and now things are much better tell him your feelings although men claim to be experts in a lot of things mindreading is not in there area! Keep your chin up and remember your body is still yours it just shows you now extra special cause you a mom! relax and have your hair nail etc done and enjoy a quiet night in or out!

Thanks for the kind words- it's just I have told him how I feel countless times and I don't know what more I can do. It's always me who instigates sex and it's always me who tries to spice things up. He must have a sex drive because years ago I found that he had been looking at porn on the web which made me feel even worse as I thought it must be a problem with me.

so sorry you feeling so bad about your relationship mine hadnt got too that point just that i didnt feel loved or wanted just felt like a mom not a women now dp realises that