Living in his house

[Bobbizz]

I moved into my bf 's house 18th months ago.
I have my own.place but someone else living it at the moment who are due to move out in a couple of months .
The thing is I miss having my own place and stuff. I have a bit of stuff at his but it's mainly his stuff.

I contribute to bills etc..do all the cooking house work etc. He can be picky at times a about small.stuff like crumbs on.the floor ir the way the dishwasher is filled. Plus he has sport on the TV most of the time.

I don't know whether to move back to my own place in a couple of months.. I think the relationship would end and I dont really want that as we generally get on and do stuff together .

Em, why are you doing ALL the cooking and housework? Sounds like he wants a maid not a partner. I'd go home on the basis of that alone! Let alone the pickiness and constant sports!

'generally getting on and doing stuff together' does not make up for you contributing to bills while doing all the housework and getting criticised for it. Go home, find someone better.

Not really a caring and sharing relationship is it? It sounds as though he's got himself a housekeeper who he doesn't pay; she pays him! And whose crumbs are they on the floor anyway? You can do better than this!

Think I tried to hard in the beginning doing housework etc.

It sounds like you're already half way out the door, you really need to think about the pros and cons because from what yous said there doesn't seem to be much pros. And why does moving out mean the end of the relationship? Lots of couples live separately.

Well he’s got a good deal hasn’t he? Free maid who pays bills and has sex with him. Why on earth are you doing all the cooking and housework?

You may not want this to be the end, but you clearly don’t want things to continue as they are. Tell him youre sick of being his skivvy and you either split housework 50/50, or you’ll be moving out and he can do 100%

Thanks think that's what I would like really to live in my own place with my own stuff. .just seems difficult to do after living together