Just after some advise really. My young children go to their fathers eow he collects and then drops them back to school on Monday. Its court ordered, so carnt easily be changed. But they are struggling, their behaviour is difficult and they are disrespectful to the staff. Their father has been a total nightmare since separating and in all honestly probably has aun undiognosed personality disorder. I obviously dont know what goes on at the weekend but i know he will be being nagative about me and my family, there is certainly a degree of emotional abuse towards the children. There is a history of domestic abuse, emotionally and financially.
Anyhow i wondering what i can do to help the children, they are taken strait to school by their father, school have been fantastic. I did wonder about popping down to school to see them but dont think thats sustainable.
The other weekend my daughter took a teddy and said she wouldn't miss me so much as she could cuddle it! It didnt make any difference, its hard to suggest they take anything to their fathers as he just keeps it!
Anyone been in this situation, what did you do? thank you