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Christine8 · 17/07/2018 10:15

Hello everyone 3 weeks ago I found out my fiancé had been messaging a friend of a friend he wanted to take her on a date asked if she was single I also found out that same day that he had asked a woman in our local shop for her phone number I was about 6 weeks pregnant I thought we where happy I thought he loved me he told me he would never cheat he said Hes hasn't cheated because He hasn't slept with anyone else but it's so sly I had a miscarriage to him and thought I can't lose him too as it's a really hard but I don't trust him anymore I thought I knew him but I clearly don't he begged for me back but it's not the same as much as I love him it's hard any advice plz all my family's and friends have said I deserve so much better I have been tryin to forget about it but I can't I hope people can change he says he loves me and doesn't want to lose me x

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Cambshusband · 17/07/2018 11:33

If he didn’t want to lose you he shouldn’t have been screwing about with other women. It’s literally that simple.

FuckItPassMeTheWine · 17/07/2018 11:34

Dump him. His behaviour will not improve . Don’t have children with this man , he will let you down , either sooner or later Flowers xx

Trinity66 · 17/07/2018 11:37

I'm sorry you had a miscarriage but I think you should leave him now before you get pregnant with him again. You can't trust this guy, don't bring a child into that kind of an environment

tallwivglasses · 17/07/2018 11:41

So sorry about your miscarriage. You're probably feeling quite vulnerable and hormonal still. I think you're going to have to block him to avoid all his tales of woe. Listen to your friends - they've got your back. This guy certainly hasn't.

Christine8 · 17/07/2018 12:13

Thank you all really appreciate I have broke up with Him a couple of times since but I know deep down that I deserve better the day I found out about these girls is the day I started to bleed and misscarry it's killed me but I will get stronger thank you all for replies x

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SuperSuperSuper · 17/07/2018 17:11

You will be fine. This guy was toxic and you're well rid.

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