Me and my partner (hes more a lodger nowadays) been together nearly 5 years, got a 3 year old son and theres nothing there anymore. No intimacy at all, i can cound on one hand how much sex weve had in the last 12 months, no cuddles, the only time i get a kiss (a peck on the bloody cheek lime im his nan) is when hes going out somewhere.... i have to nag for every little thing to be done (i work, he the stay at home parent as i earn more money) and most days i come home to a shit tip he hardly ever helps with any of the house work (im slightly ocd so i have to tidy up before i sit down, then i got to sort dinner out, then i was up now your looking at sons bed time which i do) weekend comes all down to me its lile im home so he can have a lie in and just sit on his backside all day. No support at all over anything, ive recently lost alot of weight instead of see how much ive lost i have to be told whats still there, no support over how his scabby ass mom treats our son (another story and its warrented the hatred i have for her) basically if i have my own opinion its toughy poopies hes going to do what he wants regardless of what i think. I have no idea why were even together, i have asked him to leave in heat of the moment he just bitches after how crap ive made him feel. And im just like if roles were reversed theres no way id be sitting on my backside doing the bare minimum. Or even still he can have his opinion he tells me what im supposed to think because im wrong i just dont get it. Sorry for the dodgy rant. I cant sleep ive got to get up in 5 hours was hoping the rant would make me feel better but it hasnt