To end things or not..

[notthisagain83]

Together nearly two years.. engaged.. d9nt live together.. he's so insecure and can be such hard work sometimes but I love him so much. My DD adores him. We are due to go on holiday in 43 days.

Thing is we just can't stop arguing at the moment.. I'm so tired of it.. both dealing with our own personal pressure and stress it's drifting us apart more than together.. I'm really not sure what to do

What is it that you’re arguing about OP? It’s a bit hard to advise without more info.

At the moment i couldn't tell you as we are not talking at all.. I think it's because he was trying to give me some advise and I dismissed it and told him he's not always right... although we went to bed cuddled up after that so I'm confused.

It's been mostly my lack of affection from being stressed.. although he's withdrawn because of it and we are going around in circles with that... but whatever it is it's mostly my fault!

Ending a two-year relationship seems a bit drastic when you can't even specify what you're arguing over.

I'm just so sick of the arguments and worrying about what I'm going to do next to piss him off leading to another one

Can you talk it out ? And tell him your stressed because of the constant arguing

Are you this vague with him? Do you explain your issues to him?

I tried but he was dismissive and we didnt talk about it further. Plus he's so stressed out himself right now i don't want to add more.

Can you perhaps be a bit more forthcoming.

He blames you for his moods and gets insecure with you, and wants you to have sex more?
Not really surprising you're arguing