I think i’m in Love but i don’t know..?

[girlwhohatesalevels]

So I’m 17 and for 2 weeks I have been “talking” to this guy who is 21. We meet through mutual friends at a party, and met up for a date after a week, we had the best time, laughed and so much fun and there was no awkwardness or anything. We have both been in relationships that weren’t the best, especially on his part. We text like we have been together for months and put the kissy heart emoji😘 after every text. I feel very emotionally attracted to him and i’m worried that he’s only like that with me because of how we have both been treated in the past. we have loads in common and we want the same thing regarding a relationship. I really need some advice on how to deal with this situation. xxx

Oh I remember the joy and heartache of being 17! I have no doubt at all that you very much believe that you are in love, but you've only been with him for 2 weeks! Enjoy it, don't analyse it, have fun!

It's only been two weeks... slow down.. it's great that you are communicating and are having fun keep it at that for while. Get to know each other properly spent time together whilst still balancing a life that doesn't revolve around him.

The first few months of any relationship are great... after that is when cracks appear and you begin to see if you really are compatible!

Have fun and try not to have any expectations..

You're mixing love with lust. Just enjoy the moment and don't look too deeply into it.

Aw sweet it's called dating and taking it slow, falling head over heels in a short time without really knowing each other is not really normal and can be a huge sign of trouble. Don't obsess and without trying to be patronising 17 is so young to be thinking about that kind of future with a specific someone.

Most importantly just have fun and relax, it either works out or it doesn't, there's plenty life out there.

wishes to be 17 again

After 2 weeks, it’s lust. Take it slowly