So confused.

[MamaOfADarlingAndAngel]

I'm so confused right now. Me and my partner split up a couple weeks ago because I didn't feel like we were a couple anymore. We wasn't living together and he wasn't bothered to come and see us. (Me and his daughter)
He's now so sorry for everything he's ever done, basically dying to get me back. We've been through so much, he was so-disrespectful and selfish, I feel like he's grown a bit but he's said this before. I've been around him a lot the past 4days and he seems to be different but he's talking about getting together and moving in and I'm just scared to take the leap. I suffer with anxiety and depression and I'm really ill at the moment lots of hospital visits and I just don't know what to do. Has anyone been in a situation like this? Thanks.

So this happened with my partner the other day and idk.. it’s a long one. I took his cake out of the fridge because we had actual food to go in there, he then through a bag at me and then pushed me and pushed me again even tho I said our daughters in front of us and she nearly got hurt. He didn’t seem to care, so I got so angry and stamped on his cake. He then- in front of our daughther, put his hand round my neck, pushed me into the wall and punched me a couple of times in my arm and pushed me, again in front of our daughter, it hurt me and scared her. He then decided to pack up his shit and leave us despite me begging him to stay, and struggling to breath saying we can’t live without him. He described the situation as a get out of jail free card and he gets away from the debt. I explained I was trying to protect our daughter when he said he didn’t care and it made me angry so I reacted to stamping on a cake and he decided to hit me, I begged him so much not go and I even said I’ll forgive him for hitting me and he didn’t care, we were engaged
To be married, he don’t get to just leave like that. I know I have issues such as the anxiety and depression, the ocd and depersonalisation and I know they’re a pain in the ass for him but they’re even worse for me and the vegan thing I know it’s hard for him but imagine how hard it is for me, I explained I can’t control it, he never stop to think about how much worse things are impacting me only how they’re effecting him. It isn’t fair, he can decide to walk in and out of our life’s and we can’t do anything about it. The argument was nothing to do with jealousy because his mother made him a cake and he spent a lot of time with her whilst I done stuff that morning. he seems to think it was. but the fact he leaves me to get on with things by myself no matter who else is there. Now he has never hit me before and I don’t think he will again I think it was built up anger and of course before anything gets serious he will be seeing someone for that. But he wants to try us again and so do I , I love him sooooo much and 100% want to be a family with him. Idk what to do right now. Any actual advice would be great.

For the sake of your daughter, if not yourself, do not let this man back into your life

Pity the OP didn't get any replies to her post back in July - wonder where she went!