I have been with my fiancé 2 years. He was never shy about his sex drive he openly admitted he loves sex in fact in the early stages of our relationship I couldn't keep up.
But his sex drive has disappeared.
He never wants sex....ever and if I touch him or try it on he removes my hand and tells me to stop it.
We are lucky if we have sex once every 6 weeks.
I should tell you we have a 6 month old.
He claims he is too tired and he just wants to relax and his back is hurting.
Don't get me wrong I am exhausted aswell but I am craving some affection. We don't cuddle anymore because he says he can't relax with me wrapped around him. We don't kiss unless I kiss him and even then it's just a peck.
I understand that the honeymoon period dies down and having children can take over. But I'm not talking every night I say I try it on probably once a week and when I'm told to stop I do and just go to sleep.
Since having my daughter I am having major body issues....I feel disgusting fat and squishy I don't feel attractive anymore. But I fear he thinks that too and is just no longer attracted to me. I always try make myself look ok. I am always clean shaved, bit of tan on, nails polished, hair brushed which is a struggle in itself with being a new Mum.
Am I too needy or should I be worried?