When someone doesn't even say sorry...

[Bubblesandcake]

For being a complete A-hole. How do you find closure?
7 months together. I gave my all. He decided 4 months in he would test the water with someone else. So for the last 3 months he has been using me to see which he preferred. I caught him out on my birthday so not sure how long he would have kept it up.
I trusted him. He hasn't even apologised. I was loyal, committed and honest. The night I caught him, he left, not a word since. Not a sorry! I have been left upset and he is carrying on with life (probably with her) as if I never exsisted.

He's a dickhead and you're a decent person. That's all there is to think about really! You are worth far, far more and deserve someone who is at the very least, a grown up....he's a twat!! And the world sadly is full of the type. Move on, learn from the experience, re-draw your boundaries and watch out for the twats of this world..... they're everywhere!!

Oh OP im so sorry.

Turns out hes just a dick! Be glad, you could have found out further down the line with much more invested. The relationship obviously didnt mean that much to him to start testing the water outside of your relationship 4 months in. Just see it as he wasnt that into you but led you on. What a bell end.
You dont need his apologies, they wont mean a thing. Plenty of much better men out there x