My husband came to bed last night and was looking at his phone, I asked what he was looking at and he said in a very casual way "porn" then showed me a picture of a spreadeagled naked lady. I said I was upset by this and found it insulting, he said "why? you know I look at porn". Regardless of the fact I found out previously looks at porn and was very hurt and asked him not to do it again, thats a different subject. He thinks I am overreacting that he was looking at porn while laying next to me in our bed, I know I am quite prudish but are other mothers comfortable to be sat next to their husband while they look at porn? (obviously some couples choose to do as couples, thats their choice, no judgement, but not for me)