7 month pregnant and split up

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So basically I split up with my now ex partner 2 weeks ago, he kept going out drinking every week and not bothering to come home. I got sick of wondering where he was and gave him more than enough chances to change. Since then iv heard he had been cheating on me too and now Iv seen a video of him in a pub with the girl a couple of days after. He’s this week been saying he misses me and loves me but from having a look on Facebook I can tell the girl is still on the scene. I’m just hurting so much and not sure what to do, I still love him but know he won’t change. Feeling really down. Normally I’d just go and get really drunk but obviously I can’t do that I just have just sit and deal with it 😔

I'm sorry you're in this situation, he sounds an arse. Take your time to figure out your feelings, of course it's sad and hard. Maybe go for a walk somewhere peaceful perhaps. Mull it all over. Get your game face on.

Remember you're more important right now than this break up or him, and your baby is much more important. Ignore his petty comments of missing you etc, obviously not true and he's just trying to string you along. Focus on you. Be prepared to get finances in order from his side - written agreements etc. Seek advice if needed. Surround yourself with people who'll love and support you and who can pop over for a cuppa and will listen to you vent and give good advice. Start seeing this as your new chapter, and you're bloody well going to write it yourself and write it well. There's an abundance of advice and support from women on here, too. If you need to vent, go ahead, if you need help, ask, if you simply need to moan, go ahead. We're incredibly supportive. Time to focus on you, what do you need to do now? :)