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I slept with my ex

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Sunnydays78 · 12/07/2018 16:47

Long story but I had been with my husband since I was 13. Fast forward 25 years and three kids later we separated and have been for 20 months. There was a whole range of reasons why, a lot of outside pressure and illness but ultimately we stopped looking after our marriage and didn’t communicate.
The result I moved out!
Now we have both tried to move on but nothing feels right, kids are still devastated and both our families are torn in two.
Last night he asked to come round to talk we did for hours and ended up having sex. He initiated it and it just felt right. However, he is seeing someone it’s not majorly serious between them but she is there no less. Does going back ever work out?

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OrdinaryGirl · 13/07/2018 06:36

You're not the OW, OP, you're his wife! You have kids together! You're going through a bad patch but it seems like there's lots in your post to suggest that there is hope for the two of you. I second counselling and some proper soul-searching. Good luck. 🍀

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