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Crush on colleague please help!!!

3 replies

Lauren76 · 12/07/2018 14:16

Please don’t judge me I don’t want to be judge I’m not trying to hurt anyone.

I have a boyfriend and a son with him.

Basically there is a bloke at my work where I start working 3 months ago and his very attractive,good looking. we started talking a few weeks back and I thought nothing of it till a few days ago when he started flirting with me and looking at me very different I would look up and catching him looking at me sometimes he would wink at me and I would get these butterfly feeling in my tummy. But i started off thinking his a good looking bloke but I am starting to find my self sexually attractive to him and don’t know what to do.

Yes I’m in a relationship but not a happy one. I don’t wannt to be judged by people I don’t know Should I just leave it’s as a sexually fantasy or not!!! I don’t wanna hurt anyone.

OP posts:
dirtybadger · 12/07/2018 14:18

Well if you dont want to hurt anyone, yes you must leave it as a fantasy. Given you barely know the guy, and hes attractive, what youre experiencing is lust and being flattered. Its not rare, and it goes away if you dont hold onto it.

Why is your relationship unhappy? You need to focus on that.

Trinity66 · 12/07/2018 14:19

Why is your relationship unhappy? You need to focus on that.

This really.

Thebrothers · 12/07/2018 20:52

Hi OP this sounds like my situation at the start of the year... fast forward six months.
Glances turned to texts, texts turned to sexts, sexts turned to sex, sex turned to getting caught. DH devastated, kids devastated, OMDP devastated, OMDC devastated and on and on and on.
Sorry to burst your bubble no good can come from this. Analyse your relationship, if you're truely unhappy then leave.
CANNOT EMPHASISE ENOUGH DONT START AN AFFAIR no one wins in the end. Sorry for shouting Smile

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