Unsure whether to broach subject of children etc

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Sorry if this is in the wrong place

Little background I’ve been vehemently against having children and recently changed my mind and decided I do want a child. DH isn’t upset or happy I’ve changed my mind seems pretty indifferent.

I suppose my question is how long do I wait to see if I still feel like this or return to my previous thoughts before trying.

How do you broach the subject of beginning to try for a baby with your OH and what do you do if you feel ready and they don’t?

How long you wait I think depends on how old you are? I was 34 when I changed my mind, 36 when I told him and we talked it over for a bit. Started TTC at 37 and it happened first time. That was very lucky so I wouldn't recommend leaving it that late! I wanted to be absolutely sure I didn't change my mind back as it was kind of irrevocable once I was pregnant.

Thanks for the response. I’ve spoken to him we are going to wait a few years then start trying 😀