Hi folks,
My partner which we are engaged, told me a few days ago that she kissed another man several weeks ago wile out drunk. We have 3 kids a 12 Yr old and 2 youngsters.. How I discovered was we went on holidays which was booked the morning of the night this happened. While on holiday I knew there was something up as she was very distant. When we came back several days later when the kids where in bed I questionned her as to what was up and she eventually told me. I'm still here a week later we have discussed it and she had said she wasn't happy in the relationship but we will give it a go and see if the issues what caused her to be unhappy can be resolved. I still love her to pieces but I feel totally betrayed and angry. In general she ain't a big drinker and very rarely do I see her drunk. But this happened in a small country pub which is only 400 yards away, she hasn't told me who it is but I only moved here several yrs ago from my local town, although she is from this area. To say my head is wrecked is an understatement, when she takes the dog out for a walk I'm wondering silly things, I'm not a jealous person and never have been as I respected her and trusted her. But that has been totally blown out of the water now. If I had not kids I would have walked the moment I knew, but I do and I didn't take kids into the world to be brought up by single parents. How do we get through this for my kids and myself. I know it was only a drunk kiss but in my eyes it's the low of the low betraying someone. I'm sorry for the long winded info but any advice would be greatly appreciated...