I have recently started seeing someone new (extremely early stages) and just as we were about to get intimate for the first time he told me he had testicular cancer last year and had to have chemotherapy and lost a testicle as a result. It was all so unexpected that I wasn’t sure what to say. So I suppose I am just looking for advise on how to treat it going forward and then on a more clueless note, I wonder what it all means? Obviously I don’t want to ask him about his ability to have children on a second date but these are the kinds of questions I have now so at input would be greatly received!