Hello,
My name is Tony, and i'm 23 years old. I am currently dating this amazing girl, however we only get intimate when we are completely alone, and sometimes this isn't even the case. Let me begin by stating that we do not live together, as we still live with our parents. We have been dating for over a year, and since the beginning, my girlfriend has never really been sexually attracted to me.
What really seems to bother me is the fact that she tells me she gets herself off almost every night because it helps her fall asleep. However when i'm around, it's almost as if she treats me as a friend and ignores the idea that we can have sex. I really am doing everything i can. I take her out on dates maybe 3-4 times a month, and regardless, sometimes we can go on for weeks not having any sexual interactions. I understand that there are other options for people to be intimate who are in the same situation as myself (car, hotel, etc.) but she prefers doing stuff either at my house or hers.
Is this normal?
Is there anything more I can do to fix this?
Any advice is appreciated.
Thanks, Tony.