Dp and I have been together almost 18 months .
I'm 45 he's 41 .
Everything is going really well and I think we're both on the same page hoping for a future together .
He has parents who live 300 miles away and after almost a year I was getting a bit worried as he hadn't introduced me at all to any family .
Anyway no need to worry he did eventually ask and we spent a lovely weekend with his parents . Seemed to go well and she sent me a small gift last time he visited alone .
The other person he talks about a lot is his brother who is also pretty much his best friend .
His brother has had to move to Dubai for 2 years with work but is flying home this week . There's a family get together and he's told me he's going next weekend. .
I felt a bit upset that he didn't say we were going together as he's talked about his brother so much I'd love to meet him .
Then he said if you don't want me to go darling or have plans I'll won't go . Of course I said don't be silly he's your brother .... I'll miss you but go and see him and enjoy !
Now he knows I have he children next weekend but still .... an i being unreasonable to have at least wanted him to say your v welcome to come but it might prove difficult ?
The thing is I love him and love introducing him to the people that are important in my life .so guess I just worry that he doesn't feel the same .
I should just ask him I know and we do communicate well . It would have been nice to have been asked without a kronor though !
Or am I completely overthinking ( am v tired today ) and should I just shut up and look forward to hearing all about it ?
Sorry to waffle .