Anyone else's husbands still awol from football yesterday?

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I know it's exciting but just feel taken advantage of. No text or phone call since yesterday afternoon. I'm so bloody lonely.

I hope the ops gone out. I’d say I’ll let me know when the kitchen is clean and I’ll be back after 6 IF The kitchen is clean and the boys have all been fed something reasonably nutritious not takeaway pizza. Let me know if I need to find a friend to stay with tonight because that’s all too much for you, I’ve taken my toothbrush and a change of underwear in case.

He says the right things, however he is not showing you that he loves you or appreciates you is he?

Actions speak louder than words.
This is no way for a family man to behave. Football is no excuse, didn't he even think that you would be worried out of your mind?
This is not acceptable behaviour op

Yea just leave it to him and go to the pub!

Mmm. I’m afraid complimenting straight away is not a good sign in my eyes. He’s guilty of something more than rolling in at 11am.

Are you sure he was on the sofa and not in a police cell?

I can’t believe you think this is NORMAL

YANBU
This is so far from normal. I don’t know anyone whose parent would do this and they don’t even have kids

I feel really sad for you

Actions do indeed speak louder than words. And ha actions show he neither loves. Or respects you and he couldn't give a toss about his kids.

Does he make a habit of this sort of thing OP? If it really was a one off drunken mistake, then I'd forgive him. But from the way you're talking, I get the impression he's regularly inconsiderate and takes you for granted? If so, that has to stop. Why should you spend your life being utterly miserable while he does what he likes?

Ffs. Can't believe he didn't give it a second thought. Staying out overnight with a wife at home with no idea where he is and children in bed,

You are correct OP, actions DO speak louder than words!
Hugs xx