Do I confront him???

[ruth184]

So, this morning I found a thread of messages on my husband's phone (I know I shouldn't have looked but I was intrigued!!). Anyway, turns out he's been moaning to some girl about our lack of sexual activity. Talking dirty and there were a few explicit messages back and forth. He went away a few weekends ago to a festival and one of the messages said that if he'd got an offer of sex while he was there he would have jumped on her!!
I feel sick and don't know if I should bring it up with him. I know it was wrong to go through his phone but nonetheless we shouldn't be hiding anything from each other, right??
Should I confront him about it and admit I was snooping??
What would you do????

If I read "if I'd got the chance I would have jumped on her " from my partner I would Never forgive or forgot that, FGS he sounds like a teenager, I've heard some shite from my ex but he's a cheater waiting to happen, Woman up and have some pride, tell him you are absolutely NOT going to be with someone who thinks like he does

You feel guilty for going through his phone?

Saying something after 12+ months of pent up frustration and resentment and actually doing it are 2 different things.