Its not so much that my friend has decided she no longer wants to be friends (though this does hurt), I think it was the way she went about it and has left me feeling very low and unable to shake it off.
Friends for about 5 years, clicked and became close friends almost instantly, sharing childcare, nights out, could talk to each other about anything, even went on holiday together.
She moved to a different city last weekend, I sent her a text message with good luck and keep in touch. Totally gobsmacked with the reply which was basically a character assination of me and that she never wants to see me again. Never saw it coming, and was in total shock. Some of what she said was understandable but a total overreaction. Other stuff was completely untrue, not even a hint of truth. I showed the message to another friend who said they didn't recognise me in her assination at all.
Hurts like hell, and I now am questioning my own sanity. Did I say that? Did I do that? Am I so horrible?
DH says I need to just move on and forget about it but I am really struggling to shake it off. I should probably delete her message but I keep reading it over and over and trying to make sense of what had gone wrong.
Any thoughts...