Not sure how to move on

[Racmactac]

I ended relationship with dp 6 months ago. There was a reconciliation for short period but I decided it's not going to work.
He has done some really nasty things.

He then put a fb status absolutely slating me. Calling me a psycho and saying my children were at risk.
I was absolutely devastated that someone I once loved could be so nasty.

I now find out he is buying the house next door to me. I mean wtf would you want to live next door to your ex.

I am struggling. How do I move on, I can't stop crying, I feel like he has actually broken me which I guess is his intention.

Are you sure he's buying the house or is he just saying that? How is he managing to get a mortgage on his own? If the harassment is continuing or only just finished you need to go to police and get restraining order or non-molestation order and that might legally stop him. Are you renting, council or own? Council might move you if you have restraining order. Renting, then you'll have to move and dam the expense - set up gofundme page. If it's mortgage I'm afraid I have no idea.

Yes he's buying. I opened his post and it was letter from his solicitor confirming purchase.
I own my house so he can easily get mortgage on his.
I just can't see end in sight

Well clearly he is the psycho! Seriously who the fuck does that .
So sorry op ! I know it's seriously drastic but could you afford to move ?

I can sell up and rent. I wouldn't get another mortgage as I don't have steady income.
But that's what I'm thinking about doing.
I'd have to rent for 18 months and then I'd be able to buy again

Hope it goes ok for you whatever you decide op your well rid of the nutter