I was born into an Islamic family -Moroccan (of four kids Girl, Girl, Girl, Boy to be exact), and had an arranged marriage to a total bastard, who ticked all the boxes for mental and insecure maniac. After suffering horrendous abuse at his hands in Morocco, and abandonment by my mother led family who saw it as normal, I returned to Uk by the skin of my teeth heavily pregnant.
I remarried a Christian who has for the past 21 years plus 7 months been a God sent companion, friend, lover, husband and supporter; we have had 4/5 of the boys I have been blessed with.
My dear mother from day one has orchestrated all manner of evil to separate or ruin the marriage, as she is dead against my husband for being a non Muslim...HOW DARE HE!
Recently my hard done by, yet modern and very fair Muslim father (Bless his soul) passed and my holier than thou sanctimonious mother sent my younger brother to enact her decree banning me from the House!
Well I took that in my stride and moved on with my life...till this morning; my eldest son soon to be 20 come August, popped by to say his and of course fleece his parents, and let on that my younger brother had been snooping round his end (he lives on his own now). I hit the roof! because the same brother was the courier of our mother's message to me.
That said,my son whom I had been keeping out of the whole matter got to hear the tale of woe, and the chain reaction was his getting in touch with his Uncle (my brother and banning him from his own place)
Am I bad ??
My husband has done so much for my family, he has reached over and backwards to aid them all, and I feel sad that he gets it in the teeth each and every time from my mother.
He has taken it in his stride..though I know that this time he is fuming.
My father held his hands while on his sick bed and kissed him saying " You are like son to me"
It cuts me up that my mother and my youngest sister married to a hidden Islamic perp, who hates Christians and white folk are ripping the family apart. I have asked my immediate younger sister t keep away from us as she sits on the fence half the time and is very pretentious.
I feel like saying to the bloody F - off! and go back to Morocco ignorant fools.
I am sorry if this causes any one offence, just had to get it off my mind.
phew!!
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