Me and DP together 8 years 1 DD.
in April we separated after months of arguments- him always working no family time lack of intimacy etc.
I asked him to leave for a bit and go stay with his dad.
Things didn't improve and after a few weeks he met someone, i found out and was clearly devastated.
Fast forward a few weeks, he starts saying he wants to come home etc we talk at length and he says he is going to break it off wit this woman, i got impatient and sent her all of our conversations and a message about how he still wants to come home which she ignored.
She broke things off with him and he was furious at me- told me i didn't give him space to breathe etc.
Few more weeks go by, they sort things out i start seeing someone, feeling better about everything.. now he's doing it again! telling me he doesn't know how he feels saying she's annoying him and she wants him to move in but he does not not want to!
He calls me and says his heads messd up and not for me to take it the wrong way- and not to tell her!
i told him I'm not an option anymore and to leave me out of it. hes just a selfish ass hole i feel awful again now
but to be honest if he moves in with her i will be utterly devastated- i don't want my DD staying there, i feel like I'm back to square one. what do i do :(