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Ex and Facebook

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Racmactac · 01/07/2018 20:30

Split up with ex and he has behaved pretty badly towards me with various things.
But I have just discovered he has written really nasty things about me on Facebook. We live in quite a small town and everyone will have seen it.

I am beyond devastated at the things he has said - basically I'm a psycho and my children are at risk - none of which is any way true.

I don't know what to do. How do I move on

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RitaMad · 01/07/2018 20:32

Go to the police. I think it falls under the malicious communications act.

rascallyrascal · 01/07/2018 20:33

I'm with RitaMad. Register it with the police. Screen shot it first or he could delete it and you will have no proof.

SoddingUnicorns · 01/07/2018 20:34

It does fall under the malicious communications act, XH was done for it.

Racmactac · 01/07/2018 20:49

Really? Would the police care?

I have screenshotted it.

It doesn't threaten me it just runs me down.

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SoddingUnicorns · 01/07/2018 21:08

They would probably press charges, it results in a fine.

If there are further instances or he becomes threatening it’s just more evidence for you.

Would the threat of the police make him back off?

fannycraddock72 · 01/07/2018 21:59

Block him and un-friend him. Don’t go pain shoppingby looking at what he’s up to it what he’s saying about you. It took me a year to Block my ex and although there were never any bad things said about me on Facebook, I realised that focusing on what they were doing and saying was stopping me getting in with life and over my ex. Don’t make the same mistake as me and take too long to block and remove him.

My ex slagged me off verbally and made all sorts of allegations, it’s hard but ignoring it is the best thing to do in my opinion. Take the moral high ground and keep your dignity. The people who really matter will work out that he’s talking shite.

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