Hi!
Just after some non biased opinions if possible.
Married ... kids.....nice house everything was great.
Recently my mum became very poorly. She's in hospital and isn't expected to be around much longer....I feel pretty broken right now. Seeing her there in so much pain and slowly fading away it's killing me.
Feel like I'm going 100mph trying to keep on top of everything to do with home, kids, work and husband as well as be there for my mum.
Recently I noticed a change in my OH behaviour. Nothing drastic...he's not going out more or coming home late nothing like that. I just noticed he was a little different. Sending me texts to tell me how much he loved me and how beautiful I am.....I know this sounds mad right? He's being nice....and it is lovely but it's just different. I put it down to him trying to show he is there for me through the day when he's not around and I'm at home running round for my mum.
Anyway the other night he fell asleep while we were in bed and he had a text come through off a woman he's been working with. I read the messages and I think I'm pretty intuitive and good at reading people.....I honestly don't think she has any interest in my OH....it's more the tone of his replies that suddenly made things click.....this is why he's being extra OTT with me in texts, because he knows he's trying to flirt and has some kind of thing going on his sms about going out for lunch at work and so on and it's causing him to feel guilty. I've not even had the time to stop to eat for the past few weeks and he's going off for his lunch with some new girl in the office! That's the way I am looking at it anyway.
Now I am stuck with what to do next. I just feel so angry that I'm even having this issue to think about when right now all I want to focus on is my mum. He doesnt know I saw the messages and also it looks like he's been deleting their conversations....he must have just forgot to delete the most recent.....that in itself is screaming alarm bells at me. Maybe I'm wrong for reading the messages in the first place but he's my husband and I know nothing of this person so when the message popped up it concerned me too much to ignore it.
What do you guys think.....am I being too sensitive about it?