I have been with my husband for about 8 years, we both used to have a daft sense of humour, we would talk crap for hours, do silly things, we were always best friends as well as husband and wife. He used to be a SAHD, I worked.
Anyway just before christmas DH got a new job, he's made friends with immature "lads" and he seems to be changing, he's going out drinking with them, chatting on the phone about boring things and it seems that we can no longer have a laugh.
For instance I used to make him phone his mum and say stupid things to her, yesterday he phoned her and I told him to say "we're going out chasing pigeons if you want to join us?" normally he would and his mum would be all confused before putting the phone down on him...this time he just turned around and said "oh grow up" and phoned his mum and spoke about what he needed and finished the call.
We used to make "deals" like I would tell him he could play on the playstation if he went to shop and got me a bar of chocolate and he would always do it, last weekend I told him we could make a "deal" and he said "if you want chocolate you'll have to go to the shop, I'm busy" and he turned the playstation on.
This morning he asked me to make him a cup of tea, I said I would if he let me flick his nose (normally he would laugh and say "go on then") but this time he just said "forget it, I'll do it myself".
I'm starting to feel a bit isolated, I never know what to say to him anymore he seems so different, I'm scared that if he continues to change we will no longer be compatible...