Bikini body appropriate?

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So my partners is in Benidorm with his 2 sons 19 and 23. And I sent him a nice loving text and what I get back is a women in a skimpy bikini......not just one pic but 2. So I am pretty much pissed off and say would you like it if I sent dick pics?
He's like wouldn't bother me.

I do have a right to be annoyed right?

He sounds pervy and childish. Do women know he's taking photos of them?

Why has he sent you these pictures? What is he trying to achieve?

He might say he’d be fine with receiving similar photos from you but I suspect not.

So he doesn't respect other women, and doesn't seem to much respect you.

Has he done other stuff like this?

Well he seemed to think it was funny and another day in Benidorm, where it's crazy crazy. But before hand id just sent him a nice message and I got tits and arse back.
He said he didn't mean to hurt my feelings thought it was just a laugh. I said if I sent dick pics you wouldn't like it, and his reply was it wouldn't bother him 🤷‍♀️

I think because I was drunk and I'd sent a nice message it just annoyed me getting that back.
I know he's a man and they look and tbh if we saw a naked man we would too. It just really gripped my shit!

Has he been taking photos of women in swimwear without them knowing? There is a big, big difference between ‘looking’ and taking covert photographs which he then distributed to others.

No it was in a bar and I think she was some sort of dancer, but it's Benidorm so who bloody knows!
But no not like by the pool, that would certainly end a relationship!

He's a middle-aged bloke in Benidorm taking photos of women in bikinis in bars? He doesn't sound like much of a catch tbh. Hopefully, the person you end up spending your life with will be of better quality.

That would piss me off and be the end for me.

What is he like at home? When you are out with him?
Does he check women out? Comment?

I mean did he come across pervy before that?

He was probably pissed and it was a bit tongue in cheek. I totally see that it looks bad and has made you feel shit but i can also see how an otherwise nice respectable bloke could accidentally play a faux pas like that.

More to the point why aren't you out there with them!!!

That's just weird. Do you usually check out women together?

So he's out there with his sons and has been sending me random wacky photos while out there and saying only in Benidorm, Which I can imagine is mental.
I think he thought it wasn't anything and was just trying to show me how mad it was there, but it really annoyed me.

No I wouldn't say he was pervy, maybe he just didn't think I'd react like I did. But I was just a bit like I don't want to see that.

He's said and it's true that all men look
At women in bikinis, I mean I may look at men in shorts and it's part of life. I'm
Not going to do anything about it!

It is a father and sons holiday!
We are off away in summer!

he's probably grooming his son's into misogyny.

Ugh, I’ve got one exactly the same OP. He has currently sacked me off to go on holiday with his family.

He is also very keen to tell me that all men look at other women. It pisses me off no end. Before we got together I didn’t imagine spending the rest of my life with such a sleazy person. It’s such a turn off and I’ve actually really enjoyed the week that he has been away so far without him!

I find other men (and incidentally women) attractive. He never knows about it though. I don’t make a point of checking other people out in front of him or sending him photos of hot men.

Hopefully your DP has apologised?

Hi, i don't think it's that bad. Probably insensitive but if he's a good man just let it go if you can.

If she is a dancer she probably expects her photo taken. I think you are being a tad oversensitive. Not like he was in bed with her.

Yuck!

This would piss me off no end, i understand people look at other people but to photograph them and send to your dp seems a bit off to me

Ehhh... women wearing bikinis in a bar is "mad"?

Where do you usually holiday, Norwich?

Is this the first time he's been on a "lads holiday" and getting over-excited?

He sounds vile...and I am a very tolerant easy going person...but this would make me feel disgusted with him

He sounds like a childish twat who doesn't respect or indeed like you much.

Obviously women in bars in Benidorm and dancing on the pole is fine. What ever floats your boat.
I was just annoyed he chose to take a pic, even if he didn't think I'd care....
Men!
Not his first lads hol noooo, I just guess never being to Benidorm I have no clue how crazy it is, and he had been showing me the craziness and telling me all about it.
Anyways life goes on x

My husband sent me a picture of on old man bent over in an orange banana hammock when I asked him how his holiday was going

Thibk id have preferred the girls!

I suspect he meant to send the photo to one of his mates and replied to you accidentally. He's probably drunk.

I'd be pissed for a while but it's not the end of the world. Still let him grovel a bit though!