We've been together 10 years. Two young children. I am the main earner.
My not so dp has issues with alcohol, once he starts he can't stop. Won't contact me to say if he's safe.
We have nearly broken up twice in the last year when he has disappeared off on a Thursday night and not been fit for work (or been able to take our dc to nursery). I have had to take time out of work to cover for him. I feel upset that he doesn't value how hard I work to keep things going.
You can see where this is going. Still not back from watching the football at the pub - 'I'll be back around half 10'
Fortunately I am not working Tomorrow so it will not affect my work. However I am seething that he will come home and not be able to go to work. Fingers crossed he's stopped drinking - although I won't hold my breath.
Do I call it a day. There is no trust or respect anymore.