Will try to keep this concise but avoid a drip feed!
So 2 years ago my ExP left me. For various reasons i was in a bit of a state. Went through a short (3 month period) where I did some things I wasn’t proud of. Basically drank too much and had a couple of one night stands.
One of them was this guy, let’s call him A. He’s younger than me, younger than I would usually go for, but as I say, I wasn’t really in my right mind so to speak. We parted with no ill feeling, I went off abroad for a while. That was that.
Now I am relatively happy single but keep an OLD profile which I check every 3 months approx, just in case some wonderful guy has messaged me. Lol. Went on the other day to find a message from A saying “hey I think we’ve met”.
I responded and it’s all gone a bit weird in my view! He asked me if i’d Be interested in a fwb thing, I said potentially yes cos hey i’m single, not sure I want a full blown relationship right now, he’s hot and we got on well 😉 sounds ok. The age is not so much an issue if we’re not gonna be dating.
But this is where it’s gone a bit weird. He’s messaging me day and night. He can’t stop talking about the one single time we were together, like he has remembered every tiny detail. He’s talking about meeting “at least” once a week. It all seems a bit much for something that’s supposed to be casual.
I feel like it’s weird that he would remember every detail 2 years on. I haven’t done an fwb thing before so don’t know the way it would usually go but his contact feels a bit full on. I’m starting to have my doubts as to whether this would be a good idea and would like to know what other people think.