Is it bad?

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Ok so from my previous thread where I explained iv split from oh. We have one dc and I have an older dc age 12 from previous relationship. When iv spoken to a certain person about the fact we have split they mentioned that it may be difficult to find another partner as I now have '2 kids from 2 dads'. Is this considered unacceptable or something? Obviously I didn't plan for this and there's a big age gap. Feel a bit down after this now!!

It's just their prejudice so ignore it
Try going online dating when you're ready

Ignore!!! Totally ignorant, v judgey and not relevant at all.

Give yourself time to recover emotionally before you start worrying about you next partner OP !
Plenty of women find new relationships after divorce/splitting up. I think whoever told you this piece of misinformation wasn’t being very thoughtful or accurate.

Dear confused

Repeat after me

"Oh do fuck off dear"

My dh used that to a guy on twitter last week, I was so proud, and knew any mumsnetters who saw it would know he's married to one 😱💐

Yeah I'm nowhere near wanting another partner at all but the comment took me by surprise and I too thought it was judgemental

I work in a small school (98 pupils) and among those at least four have mums who have children by more than one father - one mum has four children with four different fathers - and all of them have new partners so it's obviously rubbish to say that no one will want you. In fact these ladies seem to have, as far as I can tell, lovely new partners so ignore people who clearly have no idea what they are talking about and seem to be being deliberately unkind.